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Some aspects of meetings beyond the “rules” defined. However, when asking a girl out a second, third or fourth time, or end the meetings at an early stage, certain practices reflect a greater consideration.

Below you will find some “rules” that men should not be too difficult to follow in order to show some consideration towards young women they meet.

Rule No. 1 – Call within 24 hours

If you intend to review it, it is best to call in 24 hours, and certainly not more than 48 hours after the meeting. Follow this period that you’re enthusiastic, we drive you to review a second time, or that you regret having said that you would remember. Remember that she expects and does not know what you intend to do.

Most women expect to have news in two days after a meeting. It is expected that you wanted to see her, simply because it usually takes two meetings to help determine if it is worth continuing. Sometimes the girl will expect your call because it has detected a potential at the first meeting.

After the first day is past, she may start thinking that you’re not interested in her again, and begins to doubt his good impressions. At the same time, she imagines the “excuses” that you might not have known.

The third day, she begins to rationalize not be too disappointed, avoid feeling rejected. She said: “We do probably would not hear.” Or: “If it takes so long to remember is that we must convince him to accept me again – I do not want that! “Or:” He does not know he was supposed to call me directly? It is rude or lacks manners. ”

When you finally decide to call, three, four or five days later, she is on the defensive. If at first she was ready to say “yes” immediately after such an expectation, it is cooled and unlikely to accept a second time. It is not fair to make her wait, and if you put too much time to show you, she will end up believing that you are not considered.

Rule No. 2 – Contact using intermediary

Your meeting was organized by using an intermediary, whether a friend or a matchmaker. If this agent has expressed willingness to remain involved in more meetings, we must keep in the same timeframe. The young women generally expected that through the calls to see if you want to see it again and go through the same emotional journey if you do not you show faster. Moreover, the sooner you contact through, the more you spread your doubts she might have and avoid misunderstandings, thereby facilitating a second meeting.

We must also add: Watch hours before calling. Singles generally have a different timetable than couples. Your friends might enjoy hearing from you at midnight or an hour before the commencement of Shabbat, but a pimp or a married friend that you prefer or expect that you will remember the next day or after Shabbat.

Rule No. 3 – Be organized

Call quickly, even if the second meeting can be as fast as would like.

A man asked us: “Last night was our third meeting. I told her that I would see her again this week, but I realized I had to leave town on business during the next five days. Do I recall today to arrange a meeting so far? “We answered:” Absolutely. Tell him that you hoped to see her this week, but only because of your work you are obliged to submit to next week. It is the mark of a concerned and caring man who wants to pursue a meeting that may be promising.

Rule No. 4 – Try a second time

Call even if you’re not enthusiastic, even if the person who serves as an intermediary had to persuade you to start the second game.

Your first meeting has been “so-so, but a first encounter is rarely sufficient to” know “if that person is right for you or not. Many married couples with success among our acquaintances had a first meeting fairly commonplace, and sometimes one of the two partners had to be pushed out again. Therefore we recommend that you review someone, if it remains in the range of possibilities and there is no real reason otherwise.

Rule No. 5 – Call to say “No”

What about if you said you would call – because you panicked and you have not figured out how to tell her not so pleasant. Or you said you would call and want to continue.

In such cases, you are bound by your word. We know it is unpleasant to call to say you’re more interested in seeing it, but it’s much better than leaving in the lurch. You can simply say: “I had the pleasure to meet you the other night. I said I’ll call you, but I thought since I do not think we really are moving in the same direction. I wanted to tell you and wish you good luck. “Be polite, but frank and do not apologize … or you might get involved in another meeting that you do not want.

Rule No. 6 – No double post

If you do not want to see a young woman, do not tell him that you had a wonderful time with her, or she is terrific. This can only mislead into believing that you are still interested.

It is better to politely end the meeting by saying: “Thank you for agreeing to meet me tonight. ”

Rule No. 7 – A break clean and flawless

If you went out several times with someone and then decide that you no longer wish to continue, make him know. Either it is expected that you will see her again or she shares your feelings and expects a break ahead. Instead of letting it suspends, tell him at the end of the meeting or call her in two days.

Say for example: “In recent weeks we have had time to get to know and at this point, I do not think it is good to go. We are not making progress in the same direction: our personalities are too different: it seems that we expect everyone else in life. I hope we both find soon the person we need. ”

Do not launch into a lengthy analysis of your inconsistencies and does not send a double message saying it is wonderful.

Rule No. 8 – Return the elevator

It is not unusual that if the young woman you met is not for you, however it should be very good to your roommate, your brother, cousin, friend or colleague. There is nothing wrong with the call shortly after you have stopped seeing him say: “Although it did not work out between us, I think it would be a good thing that you’re my friend, Stephen. I took the liberty to talk about you and he seems interested. I’m calling to see if you agree to hear my proposal. ”

This idea works both ways. We know of many cases where the woman thought: “It was really nice of him to have called this meeting to offer. It’s really a good person; I should introduce him to my friend. ”

Once everything has been said, it must be tactful and keep your word. In games as in life, follow the golden rule always turn to your advantage.